ADORO EL MALTRATO DE PECHOS,
This is Why I played PoE instead of Diablo III
All of this
If he doesn't want to have the surgery, he shouldn't have to have it. It's an extremely painful process. If sex is also painful for him, you are expecting him to go through pain in order to have sex with you, which I think is gross. He doesn't think you're worth the pain. Deal with it or move on.